I've made good progress on my goal of decluttering, only my work files and inbox left to be tackled. I've decluttered pretty much everything: my closet, shelves, cabinets, drawers, tables, personal files, boxes in storage, wallet, work bag, car. Here are my thoughts from this exercise:
- There were certain things I stored because I was waiting for the "best time" to use them, but I’d forgotten I had them in the first place, leaving them frozen and useless all this time. What a waste. They were meant to be enjoyed, not stored! It's just like life, I guess. Sometimes we fail to live for the present because we're on a perpetual wait-and-see mode, or we're hung up on the past...And so, moments pass us by.
- I realized I own several things I used once or a few times, then never again. So much accumulated stuff, many of them not really necessary. Amidst the decluttering, I made a resolution to invest more on living life fully, than on things. (On cue, Mr. Postman arrived to deliver my 2009 Repertory season tickets! Watching plays is one activity I enjoy and miss, and I intend to resume it next year).
- I threw away all my stored college stuff, except for this one file I couldn't bear to discard: my notes, handouts, reviewers, and compositions from four sems of Philosophy classes. These classes (all of which I chose to take in Filipino) are without doubt one of the best parts of my Ateneo education.
- I confirmed (yet again) that I could be ruthlessly unsentimental if I so choose :p
It's definitely good practice to declutter every now and then! Below is an excerpt from my favorite book Letters To My Son, this time on Possessions:
"But most of all I want you to know that possessions become what you make them. If they increase your capacity to give, they become something good. If they increase your focus on yourself and become standards by which you measure other people, they become something bad. It is in your hands to give them meaning. Periodically purge yourself. Give away what you don't use. Go on a long trip and take only a single pack. Do something to remind yourself that most of the possessions you thought were important are nothing but superficial decorations on who you really are."
9 comments:
Hey Bing (: Agree on your thoughts. Have to remind myself to live in the present ;p
Hello. I tried looking for the book Letters to My Son but there seems to be no stock anywhere. May I know where you got your copy? Thanks....
Hi Steph:
Great to hear from you. Yes, living in the present is the way to go! But! I'm also looking forward to May/June of next year. If plans to accompany my Mom to the US push through, hope we could meet halfway and get together!! :D
Hi Anonymous:
I highly recommend it! I got my copy in the US though. Maybe you could just have the bookstore secure it for you?
nobody - definitely. Let me know exact date as soon as you know so that I can file for vacation leave and do the necessary travel arrangements. Can I bunk in with you at the hotel? hehe. I can pay for the other half. Better yet, I hope my hotel reward points can be used. hehe.
I have the book but haven't read it yet!!! (Thanks Rye)
Grabe Bing, yung Ateneo stuff mo, tagal na nun ah!!!!!! Hahahahaha Joke lang.
Kelangan din natin magdeclutter sa office. Let's let go :p
On a more serious note, I love that excerpt from the book. And I love what you said in the first bullet. I think we keep "saving" something or ourselves, only to find out that the perfect time will never arrive or has already come and gone. The best moments are definitely those instantaneous ones.
Hey great, didn't know Rye got you a copy! Perfect.
Ateneo stuff - didn't know I still had them hahaha. My mom kept them all this time and unearthed them over the break for me to sort through.
Nag declutter na kami ni Riza sa office, kinda. It's definitely a brighter and cleaner place! Hehehe
Yes -- theme for 2009 is live for the moment! Woohooo!
Steph -- I'll definitely be in touch for the exact dates! Yippeeee!!! Something to anticipate!!
grabe it was really nice to have decluttered the stuff in the office :) let's go for a cleaner & more organized workplace in 2009! hehe
Reezy, approved without thinking!
I'm applying the same principle to my inbox. Declutter as I go! I hope I could sustain it!
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